This is populist and skewed thinking. There are multiple wars against multiple demographics and we should acknowledge them all if we're being fair.

There's a war on men, war on white people, war on old people, war against the police, war against the church, war on immigrants, war on rich people, war on poor people. It goes on and on.

The best way I can think of coping and thriving despite all these wars is to shut the fuck up and stop being a victim. Whatever we do, some group doesn't like it. Fuck them. do it anyway. Do what I think is right and is good for me while not harming others, and nevermind if some group thinks I'm a bad person.